For The Domme

  • Tools for Sexual Empowerment: References to vibrators, floggers, and other tools that help individuals explore and express desires safely and consensually.

  • Midori’s Forte Femme Workshops: Recommended for women exploring dominance and self-empowerment in BDSM.

  • Alba Botanica Kukui Nut Oil: A massage oil that Jess uses in bodywork sessions, available on Amazon.

  • FetLife: Mentioned as a platform to connect with BDSM communities, where Lisa’s partner is known as Sir Giggles.

  • One Taste and Orgasmic Meditation: A reference for techniques that focus on mutual pleasure and connection.

  • Sacred Sexuality Workshops: Recommended for those interested in exploring Yoni massage and self-discovery in a guided, respectful environment.

  • The Temptress Retreat: A retreat focused on self-expression and seduction, led by Jess.

  • Tantra Chair: Mentioned as a versatile piece for intimate settings, admired by Jess and Lisa.

 

For The Poly

  • Dating Apps for Ethical Non-Monogamy: Hashtag Open and FEELD, as platforms to meet like-minded individuals.

  • Online Communities for Polyamory Support: Facebook groups like Poly Love Lounge, Leveled Up Love, and poly-focused Reddit groups, providing discussion, support, and resources.

  • More Than Two: A foundational book on polyamory and ethical non-monogamy.

  • The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures.

  • Polysecure by Jessica Fern: Recommended for understanding attachment styles and navigating polyamorous relationships.

  • Swinger Lifestyle Sites (SDC and SLS): Platforms mentioned by Lisa for finding local swinger events and communities.

  • Monogamish: The New Rules of Marriage | Jessica O'Reilly | TEDxVancouver.

  • Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin: A framework for understanding boundaries, mutual agreements, and consent in relationships. (https://bettymartin.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/final-Wheel-A4.pdf)

 

For The Virgin

  • Slow Sex by Nicole Daedone: A recommended book that focuses on taking a slower, more intimate approach to sexuality.

  • Wild Feminine by Tami Lynn Kent: A guide to reclaiming the feminine body and spirit for personal healing and empowerment.

  • Brené Brown’s Books: Recommended for tools on self-reflection and managing personal stories we tell ourselves.

  • Planned Parenthood: Recommended for information on vasectomy and other contraceptive methods.

  • Warrior Goddess Training by Heather Ash Amara: Mentioned as a tool for self-empowerment and embracing femininity.

  • Sacred Sexuality and Tantric Workshops: Mentioned as spaces where women can further explore self-discovery and empowerment.